Was thinking today about all the sisters out there in the world. Seems so many looking for a bad boy with a good heart, like in the movies... But that don't exist.
Then when he acts badly toward them they don't understand how he could treat such a good woman so badly.
Simply answer, "It was in his nature." You can't adopt a wild beast and expect it to behave all the time like a benevolent human being.
Hollywood romanticizes the bad guy with the heart of gold so often, but in real life if he had a heart of gold he wouldn't be a bad guy.
If he was secretly a good guy with a heart of gold he'd be volunteering at a community program, reading to children, doing volunteer work, helping the elders, trying to better himself, seeking a more spiritual walk with the Creator...
Not trying to emulate gangsters, idealizing Al Pacino's 'Scarface' character, getting high, staying lit, packing pistols, trying to act hard all the time (which attracts negativity and drama into ones life) and trying to portray himself as God's gift to women.
The Bad Guy with a heart of gold is a mythological creature. If you're attracted to bad guys just be honest with yourself and know what you're getting into. Because predators may look cool but they're vicious. When they're human they're called 'Sociopaths'. Everyone, at some point in their life, should do psychological research on the definition of a sociopath.
I recommend a good psychology book, 'The Sociopath Next Door.' Very enlightening book by an expert in the field.
Not to pick on guys, because there are plenty of women sociopaths and plenty of guys who have a good heart but are attracted to the bad girl and want to save her from herself and the world.
Simply answer, "It was in his nature." You can't adopt a wild beast and expect it to behave all the time like a benevolent human being.
Hollywood romanticizes the bad guy with the heart of gold so often, but in real life if he had a heart of gold he wouldn't be a bad guy.
If he was secretly a good guy with a heart of gold he'd be volunteering at a community program, reading to children, doing volunteer work, helping the elders, trying to better himself, seeking a more spiritual walk with the Creator...
Not trying to emulate gangsters, idealizing Al Pacino's 'Scarface' character, getting high, staying lit, packing pistols, trying to act hard all the time (which attracts negativity and drama into ones life) and trying to portray himself as God's gift to women.
The Bad Guy with a heart of gold is a mythological creature. If you're attracted to bad guys just be honest with yourself and know what you're getting into. Because predators may look cool but they're vicious. When they're human they're called 'Sociopaths'. Everyone, at some point in their life, should do psychological research on the definition of a sociopath.
I recommend a good psychology book, 'The Sociopath Next Door.' Very enlightening book by an expert in the field.
Not to pick on guys, because there are plenty of women sociopaths and plenty of guys who have a good heart but are attracted to the bad girl and want to save her from herself and the world.
They want to take her home and treat her right and then her hidden heart of gold will come forth from behind her hard shell.
Well, good luck if that is your cup of coffee...Every mistake is a learning experience so just pick ourselves up and carry on to the next mission with more knowledge acquired through experience.
Assuming we've lived through the mistakes...
Hoo-ah 4 Life,
AnDrew*
Well, good luck if that is your cup of coffee...Every mistake is a learning experience so just pick ourselves up and carry on to the next mission with more knowledge acquired through experience.
Assuming we've lived through the mistakes...
Hoo-ah 4 Life,
AnDrew*
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